Storytelling tips for parents

How to read a story ? What’s a good time to read it and what’s the best technique to read so that a child is hooked to the book ? These and many more such questions come in mind when you wish to develop reading habit in your child. And trust me it’s no rocket science, few easy steps and you will master the art of storytelling for your child .

I will keep it pretty simple and write in points so that it’s easy to understand. These few simple yet effective steps are my tried tested and invented which definitely help to solve the problem of the big HOW !

So let’s begin-

  1. First and foremost storytelling isn’t an activity it’s a bonding time with your child that should be relished and cherished with interest.
  2. Storytelling requires patience, it’s not a job that you need to finish and get done with.
  3. Be ready to become a good listener while storytelling as your child might have infinite questions. Let your child disturb you with questions because that means it’s interesting and they are listening.
  1. The three D’s are very important. Describe, Discuss, Derive. Describe the story nicely in a simple way , discuss the story and derive something out of the story, not necessarily a moral but some useful information or fact anything.
  2. Read according to your child’s interest. Let them decide the pace. Forcing the child to read doesn’t help. Let Children be the judge. If they wish to read one page that’s fine. You may improvise to develop interest. Do not forget they are children .
  3. Make sure you are reading the storybook in an interesting and lively way. After all it’s all about developing interest and that cannot be done in a full boring way.
  4. Ask your child to pick the storybook of their choice.
  5. Most important is to stay away from digital distractions while storytelling. Do not check your phone or laptop. Remember your child will only concentrate if you do the same.
  6. Never pick scary , sad or dingy storybooks. You are trying to inculcate reading habit not evade it.
  7. If a child sticks to one book for some time, it’s absolutely ok. Don’t force them to pick a new book to read every time. Everyone has favorites.
  8. Bedtime is best for storytelling but then if you are free during day why not read a book and do some activities with it.
  9. Play funny quiz games related to story book that you read with the child just for a recap.
  10. If your child is of an age that they can read themselves, listen patiently and never interfere too much for correcting mistakes. It discourages them. If you notice a mistake come to it later and correct in a positive and gentle way.
  11. Partner reading is fun. Read along with your child .
  12. Never scold or abuse a child during storytelling if they are not stable. Let them be in a playful mood or else It discourages them.
  13. Don’t panic if child isn’t showing interest in story while you are reading. Children have short attention span but still they do grasp things happening around them. Trust me they are way to clever than we can imagine.
  14. Don’t read at a stretch.
  15. If your child is below 5 years of age don’t explain too much word meanings. Explain in a simple way.
  16. Always pick age appropriate book. It doesn’t matter if your neighbor’s child is reading books above his age. Every child is unique.
  1. Decide a time for storytelling everyday so that the child looks forward to it.

Age appropriate books according to age groups:

  • 1 to 3 – touch and feel and musical books
  • 3 to 5 – big picture books with lesser sentences
  • 5to 7- books with good illustrations and moderate length paragraphs
  • 7 to 9- small chapter books with or without illustrations
  • 9 and above- introduce novels.
  • So parents hope you find these small tips useful in developing reading habit in your child through storytelling . Remember every child is different and has unique abilities. You just need to discover them. If not reading may be your child is a good painter, singer , dancer , actor, artist etc. Let them explore let them learn let them rise and shine in their own special way.
  • Happy reading 📖

    Akanksha Datta

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